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Sex is good, says pastor

2008-12-01 07:13

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Johannesburg - If the sex is good, the marriage will be good, the American TV evangelist, Rev Ed Young said on Sunday.

The pastor at the Fellowship Church in Texas recently raised some eyebrows when he announced the Seven days of Sex challenge to his flock, in order to boost their marriages.

Young and his wife, Lisa, encouraged married couples to become "sexperts" in this "sexperiment". The challenge ended last Monday.

In the middle of their programme, the Youngs had to leave for Britain and South Africa. Young first preached in London and then came to Johannesburg, where he preached at the Rivers Church in Sandton.

A few years ago Rev André Olivier, pastor at the Rivers Church, and his wife Wilma visited the Youngs in the US and became "good friends" with them, Olivier told his congregation on Sunday.

Young conducted three of the six services at the Rivers Church this weekend.

In the first service on Sunday morning, he used the first few minutes to advertise the books he had written.

Sex challenge 'to build families'

Regarding the much talked-of Seven Days of Sex, he said the best thing you could do for your children was to have a healthy marriage.

"People have asked me if I initiated this 'sexperiment' to draw more members to the church.

"No, I did it to build families. If the sex is good, the marriage will be good, because you not only experience physical intimacy, you also form a spiritual bond. It makes the marriage stronger."

In the rest of the service he focused on spiritual growth. He compared it to birth and adolescence and encouraged the congregation to become spiritually more mature.

"At one stage you stop feeding a baby and then it has to start eating on its own," he said.

The same applied to adolescence, a phase which, he said, is characterised by rebellion against authority.

"In the adolescence stage, the faithful should realise that God and authority figures in the church know better.

"As a spiritual 'adolescent' you do not have the necessary knowledge or wisdom."

Young left the building directly after the service as a special collection was being taken up for him.

- Beeld

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Big Daddy 12/1/2008 8:07:33 AM
There is actually 4 services and the first service was on Saturday evening. Pastor Andre went with his son, Adrian, not his wife to visit Fellowship church. Just another example of the poor quality of journalism in South Africa...
Mav 12/1/2008 8:14:54 AM
The article is interesting but borders on a sarcastic under-tone. E.g What does Ed Young haivng to leave the bulding directly after the service have anything to do with message he preached? Or why would the reporter mention the "special collection" that was taken up for Young? Instead the reporter should have asked the congregration their thoughts about the service message - thats more in keeping with the article title and message. Very poor journalism.
Ruth Marais 12/1/2008 8:36:27 AM
I agree with Mav. The emphysis should be on bringing people to god and not all about when he left the building and the special collection taken. Wake-up people!!! Jesus is coming soon.
des 12/1/2008 8:39:25 AM
i agree with interesting, a journalist should be neutral when reporting and although neutral not ignorant or arrogant, at least do some studying on a topic if you are going to report on it, if you don't understand Christianity then don't mock it, rather send a reporter who doesn't go there looking for mistakes but rather report on the positive and at least give people hope in our daily lives that makes life worth living, you never know you could end up saving a life instead of encouraging failure
Springbok 12/1/2008 8:42:12 AM
Why you ask? Because he is a crackpot fundamentalist christian "pastor", thats why!!
Geoffrey van Wyk 12/1/2008 8:49:52 AM
they both fall into the ditch.
Ditsheho 12/1/2008 8:55:20 AM
I have a challenge even with the title, sex is good says God not the pastor, the pastor only conveyed what the scriptures stated, i concur with allthe others, the emphasis should be on the message, "Let us fix our families"
Andy 12/1/2008 9:02:53 AM
Just another US "evangelist" using people to become rich. Why do you have to advertise your books, or a have a special collection? Shouldn't God look after him? The Bible warns about these types of preachers, I think you should wake up!
PinkFloyd 12/1/2008 9:11:10 AM
Ruth Marais - who told u Jesus is coming - or is it a so-called belief that was pumped into u by someone as warped as that Rhema freak/crook who cannot even quote from the Bible properly - so give me proof of when this Jesus is coming and provide facts - not make believe - u see - the Bible was written by people who were conned by so-called religious freeks. the same type that conned u into your little world of "once upon a time..." So come with facts.
Gavin 12/1/2008 9:18:08 AM
What a weak article. My wife is a hair stylist working from our salon at home. Trust me on this: most women think that they are doing their husband a huge favour by giving them sex. They withhold sex and then cry big tears when he is seduced by another women. I agree with Ed...Sex, even every second night would be fabulous. I must show my wife the article and see if I can get her to agree to the seven day thing..
Still married 12/1/2008 9:18:18 AM
Why is sex proclaimed in the bible between husband and wife if it is satanic, Geoffrey the blind? I feel sorry for any wife who has a husband with that attitude. Shame for the kids raised in a house like that because they will carry on burning that sulpherous flame and end up with divorce sooner or later over something which is sanctioned and supported by the bible but not done in their household. Think about it, your grandkids will not have a stable household because of your attitude now.
Mel 12/1/2008 9:34:39 AM
If the sex is good it does not always mean that the marraige is good. My husband and I always had great sex but lacked the intimacy. i believe that if your sprirituality is great you will have a wonderful marraige and great sex will follow. It should not be the other way around. Respect and love should always lead the way. Otherwise you will only be another toy
Jay 12/1/2008 9:49:58 AM
Crackpot, you see these clowns for what they are. This bloke is a variation on a boring theme and no different from the so-called Potato Prophet in SA. They are all certifiable, but who will look after them in the loony bin? Des, Ruth, Merv: It makes no difference whether there are 3, 4 or 9 circus performances per week-end. Neither does it matter who visited whom. The story is essentially about this joker's sensational utterances in the name of yet another splinter franchise. Jay
Hellen 12/1/2008 9:54:03 AM
Yes, this article has a sarcastic under-tone to incite controvertial debates. If you're not a christian, why get agitated about what happens in the church,, obviously because it makes you feel uncomfortable about a convicton you have, so you critise what other people do and say to make yourself feel better.
george 12/1/2008 9:59:14 AM
Why is the statement "... they became "good friends"" in inverted comments? I wager that the "journalist" was trying to hint at something. Something that may or may not be there. Conjecture at best. Lies at worst.
PinkFloyd 12/1/2008 10:10:15 AM
I totally agree with Gavin - that S.A. wifes think they can control their husbands by withholding sex. Most married men complain and state that when they get married the sex stops. Go on - do a survey - it is a fact. It is also part of the reason why so many marriages go belly up in this country. It is also the reason why the Ranch/Teasers/Tittytwisters etc. exist - and the owners are making millions. Women must wake up to this fact.
Sokwalisa 12/1/2008 10:14:01 AM
Since this story started making rounds on the net, my only reaction has been the end is indeed drawing to nearer. The bible says in 2 Timothy 4:3-4: "For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables.." No wonder the interest in this subject of sex. Christians be warned of such pastors.

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