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This column has offered me an opportunity to touch lives meaningfully. Whilst the aim is to offer substance, it is your feedback that confirms a job well done.

Thank you, people of Sedibeng. A time of festivities has befallen us once again and wedding preparations are the order of the season. I therefore dedicate the month of October to a crash course in pre-marital counseling. The subject of finding a life partner provokes interest from most singles, youth and adults alike. My wish is to have a tried and tested formula that works every time, but because each love story is unique, I can only contribute with basic guidelines.

Romantic fantasies end on a "happily ever after" note, but where do they begin? It starts with you! You have to be certain beyond a shadow of doubt that you are ready to commit to someone. At this stage, brothers, you should be past selfish statements like "I still want to enjoy my life without any baggage". Sisters, it does not take a rocket scientist to know when all he wants is fun and not a family.

Did you know that a woman is not automatically ready for commitment, just because she is approached by a man who promises basic qualities i.e. fidelity, financial security etc.? You must remember my dear that Mr. Perfect had a chance to get his priorities in order and the same must be said about you. Do not believe the myth that a package like him will never come your way again by the time you too are ready.

Everyone must guard against false alarms of feelings, since it might feel right simply because you've seen someone who seems right. Your readiness must be a conviction, not a mere feeling of rushing blood. Let's do part 2 in the next issue

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