Do you have a real purpose in your life?

2015-11-05 06:00
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motivation zyd mzamo

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How are we brought up? Can anyone tell me? And do you understand my question? Can you think about it? How are we brought up? Of course you will look at yourself. You will look at your parents.

Your mind will go all over your early life. You won’t remember most of the things. And then you will remember going to school. And having friends. And growing up. And having relationships.

Soon you won’t be brought up. You will be a grown up. And you will ask, if you have a head, “What kind of a grown up am I?” “Am I going somewhere in life?” “Do I know what I want to be?”

Most of the time these questions don’t bother us. We just grow up as if growing up is natural. We listen to what friends say. Sometimes friends tell us stories. They tell us stories of their adventures.

How many girls they had. You know it is not right to have girls, especially when you are young. But when friends tell you they have girls, and you don’t, you are put to shame. You feel like having one.

And you do. Soon you have plenty. And you impregnate some. And you boast about it. Even though you do not look after them. You are a man. How are we brought up? Do you understand my question?

We are reared in failure. We are reared to do bad things. And be proud of it. And get lots of praises. Some of which go like this: “Ah, so-and-so; is great!” So the younger ones listen. They hear this is a signal to do like wise.

I know lots of people that do not like good people. They pull their noses at them. As if to say, “Who do they think you are?” “We will show you.” And they show you. If I may say so, we like bad things.

And think they are good. And good things, we shun. There is somewhere in the Bible that talks about this. It is an old age thing. And it is a weakness that humanity has allowed itself to be a victim of. It is not a racial thing. It is a universal one. And is all over the world. You will find bad people everywhere. So will you find good ones. But the odds seem to be against good people.

There are more bad people than good people, if I may say so. I don’t know why. Maybe it is easy to be bad than to be good. As I tried to show in isijolo. You try to do bad things to belong.

You do not want to be an odd one out. To tell the truth, I don’t mind being an odd one out. As long as I have a purpose in life, it does not bother me a bit. If I fail, let it be. But let me have a purpose, and pursue it, I will belong. Stay positive.

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