Christel clear with mentors

2017-08-24 06:00
Xolisa Wulana and Zola Maphila (right) mentoring learners Rafeeqah Blommetjie & Nosiviwe Mpukane (left) at Christel House.

Xolisa Wulana and Zola Maphila (right) mentoring learners Rafeeqah Blommetjie & Nosiviwe Mpukane (left) at Christel House.

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It may be a Saturday morning – the perfect time to kick back and relax after a long week of work or study – not so for young volunteers Xolisa Wulana and Zola Maphila.

These two are not like most of their peers, they have chosen to plough their time and energy back into helping others – who, like them, come from backgrounds of hardship and poverty – to get ahead.

They have set up a mentorship programme in their alma mater, Christel House in Ottery, that sees them taking current matric pupils under their wing to help them through their final year at school.

“As graduates of this amazing school, we felt we needed to do something to contribute to the Christel House Circle of Life. This mentorship programme is our way of giving back”, said Xolisa.

Xolisa, who has a BCom from the University of the Western Cape (UWC) and is being sponsored by Accenture to pursue his honours degree in Information Systems, recalls how when he walked through the gates of Christel House in 2002 as a shy seven-year old boy, he didn’t realise that his life was about to change.

“Coming from Langa, where a child is more likely to do drugs and go to prison than to finish school, Christel House saved and gave me the best possible education. Everything I am today is because of the strong values Christel House taught me,” says Xolisa.

He and his fellow graduates now want to reinvest some of that social capital by providing advice and support to the current matrics in the school. Aside from one-on-one meetings with mentees, the group also arranges get-togethers with all mentors and mentees on a regular basis.

And to help them brush up their mentoring skills, Christel House CEO, Nicky Sheridan, arranged for a Life Coach, Dale Williams, to spend a morning equipping them with the tools necessary to listen carefully and provide advice wisely.

“I meet with my mentees in a personal capacity twice a month, and in order to keep all communication channels open between us, I’ve made myself available to them on e-mail and on social media platforms. I want to be accessible to them as much as possible”, says Xolisa.

According to Zola, who also began her Christel House journey in 2002 when the school was first established, it is becoming increasingly important for young people to form these mentor-mentee relationships, particularly those who live in townships like Langa; where they are forced to face down the relentless social demons of gangsterism, violence and drug abuse.

“Of course, Christel House puts an incredible amount of effort into making sure that the students are taught valuable life skills, in the hope that they use them to tackle some of these social challenges.

The significance of this mentorship programme is that, because we all come from poor communities, most of us have had to conquer the same demons.

For Zola, and many of Christel House’s alumni, the concept of ‘giving back’ truly hits home.

“I was raised by a single father; after being abandoned by my alcoholic mother. My father struggled to keep our heads above water, and many times not having a clue what we were going to eat each day.

Zola also runs voluntary workshops to assist job-seekers from her community to become work-ready.

“It’s a three-day workshop where we work through interview skills, CV templates, cover letters, netiquette – just to name a few. These are some of the things we take for granted, but I was surprised to discover that most of my trainees didn’t even have e-mail addresses!”

Christel House aims to break the cycle of poverty by providing children with free, quality education in a stable environment.

Children are not selected based on academic merit, but solely on financial need.

The school maintains a rigorous academic programme, which is complemented by transport to-and-from school, nutritious meals, medical and psychological support as well as career guidance.

According to Nicky Sheridan, all this translates into ensuring that Christel House graduates are work-ready.

They don’t just have the education, but also the life skills needed to ensure that they can become active economic citizens, who are gainfully employed.

“We are proud of our outstanding academic success, but even prouder of the fact that 98% of all our graduates are in quality employment or still studying in University.”

Amanda Nodada: “Nicky sits with each Grade 12 students for a 15-30 minute interview, asking them thorough questions ranging from who they stay with at home, what their current exam marks are, and what plan B is, should their first career choice not work out,” explains Amanda.

“Having spent many years at senior level in a corporate environment, he is well-positioned to know exactly what prospective employers are looking for in a candidate.”

One of the objectives of the mentorship programme is that the current matric pupils will in turn become mentors to next year’s matrics, thereby creating a support network that will enrich all participants and continue to grow for many years to come.

“There is a general misconception that mentees are the only ones who actually benefit from a mentor-mentee relationship”, says Zola.

“But, I believe that being a mentor is just as important as having one.

The skills that I have gained as a mentor, will carry with me into the workplace and throughout my life. It has been an incredibly enriching experience.”

Many studies now attest that volunteerism holds a number of key benefits for individuals, businesses and government.

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