A go santse go shubedisiwa?

2016-04-20 06:00
ADV. KUNI DITIRA. Photo: Social Observer

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GO shubedisa (Ukuthwala) (The practice of abducting young girls and forcing them into marriage).

A go santse go shubedisiwa? A go na le dingwaga tse mosetsana a ka shubedisiwang ka tsone kgotsa nnyaa? Go shubedisa ke fa mosetsana a tsewa ka dikgoka ntle le tumalano ya gagwe ke monna le ditsala tsa gagwe, maikaelelo e le go mo dira mosadi le go pateletsa ba ga bomosetsana go simolola dipuisano tsa lenyalo. Gantsi mosetsana o a bo a sa dumela seo.

Nakong ya pele go shubedisa go ne go sa tsenyeletse go betelela mosetsana kgotsa go tsena mo thobalanong go fitlhela dipuisano tsa lenyalo di shweditswe. Fela motho yo o shubedisetseng o ne a otlhaiwa ka kgomo kgotsa di balwa. Jaanong matsatsi a, go shubedisa go tsenyeletsa petelelo le go pateletsa lenyalo la mosetsana yo a santseng a le kwa tlase ka dingwaga. Basetsana ba, ba dingwaga tse dikwa tlase ga tse shomeamabedi (20-years) ba nyalwa ke borre ba ba godileng ba ba lekanang le borremogolo ba bone.

Go shubedisa go godisa ngwana ka bonako pele ga nako mme o tlogela go tshameka a itumelela bongwana jwa gagwe. Mosetsana o tlogela go tsena sekolo mme se se ba amoga tshono ya go ithuta le bokamosho jo bo namatshang. Ngwana e nna mosadi mme o tswanetse a tlhokomele monna le ba bogadi mme o rwala maikarabelo a a fetang dingwaga tsa gagwe. Basetsana ba tsenwa ke matlhoko a go tsena mo thobalanong ba santse ba le bannye mme mebele ya bone e ise e siamele thobalano. Bontsi jwa bana ba ba shubedisiwang ba tswa ko malapeng a a itshopereng. Khumanego e ya ata.

Rona fa re ntse re gola re ne re tle re utlwe gore mongwe o shubedisitswe. Nna ka bongwana ke ne ke tle ke bone gore go ne go rulagantswe, mosetsana a buisane le motho wa gagwe. Gantsi go ne go shubediswa basetsana ba ba mo dingwageng tsa go nyalwa mme motho a shubediswa ke motho o a ntseng a ratana le ene. Jaanong mo mafelong a mangwe go shubedisiwa bana mme ba shubedisiwa ke bagolo. Go utlwisa botlhoko fa motho yo mogolo a ka shubedisa ngwana wa gago ka gonne o tla bo a mo senyetsa bokamosho. Nakong ya gone jaanong motho a ka nna a tlalegiwa ko mapodiseng mme a tshwarwa bogolo fa go ka nna le petelelo kgotsa go gapa ka dikgoka (kidnapping). Se ke tlolo ya molao e e kgolo. Gape monna ga a tshwanela go tsena mo thobalanong le ngwana o o mo tlase go dingwaga tse 16 le fa ngwana o a ka dumela. Seo molao o se kaya e le go betelela.

Gona le ditlwaelo le meetlo e e sa tlholeng e dira morago ga go nna le Molaotheo wa Naga. Pele motho a dira sengwe a nagane mme a bone kgakololo gongwe a iphitlhele a le mo kgolegelong.

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