Filipino women bring peace with sex strike

2011-09-16 14:28

Manila - Women in the southern Philippines brought peace to their strife-torn village by threatening to withhold sex if their men kept fighting, the UN refugee agency reported on Friday.

The "sex strike" in rural Dado village on the often lawless southern island of Mindanao in July helped end tensions and bring some prosperity to the 102 families living there, said UNHCR national officer Rico Salcedo.

"The area is in a town which is subject to conflict, family feuds, land disputes. The idea came personally from the women," Salcedo told AFP.

The idea was conceived by a group of women who had set up a sewing business but found that they could not deliver their products because the village road was closed by the threat of violence, Salcedo said.

‘If you keep fighting, you’ll be cut off’

Sporadic shooting incidents between men in the village had occurred especially near the road, the UNHCR said.

"There had been a string of clan conflicts. You would have a number of men who would go against another family. There were scattered incidents of shooting at each other," said UNHCR staffer Tom Temprosa.

The sewing group's leader, Hasna Kandatu, said they warned their husbands they would be cut off from sex if they continued causing trouble.

"If you go there (to fight), you won't be able to come back. I won't accept you," Kandatu recalled telling her husband, in a video on the UNHCR website.

Her husband, Lengs Kupong, recalled his wife telling him: "If you do bad things, you will be cut off, here," he said, motioning below his waist.

Feuds between clans over land, money or political influence have been a major source of violence in the southern Philippines, helping fuel a Muslim separatist insurgency and brutal crimes, rights groups and scholars have said.

In the worst case of such feuds, members of an influential Muslim clan are being tried for allegedly murdering 57 people in the south in 2009 to keep a rival family from challenging them in local elections.

  • preshen govender - 2011-09-16 14:35

    my wife already does this to me

      Sheda Hab - 2011-09-16 16:36


  • daaivark - 2011-09-16 14:38

    YES! Way to go, ladies.

  • Johan - 2011-09-16 14:41

    in ons huis sal dit geen effek he nie . . . . . :)

  • TheNwsReader - 2011-09-16 14:52

    If the men adhere, they obviously have no pride. This could lead to men cheating their wives with women that are willing, and there will be.

      daaivark - 2011-09-16 15:04

      Good grief, NwsReader: How chauvinsitc can one get? Are you suggesting that the men should force themselves on their wives as a matter of pride? Or insist on the rather idiotic "right to fight" by going out and screwing someone else? Thank God I'm not your wife. But think it through, Boet. If all the women cross their legs, who would they cheat with? Their buddies?

  • Fiona - 2011-09-16 15:14

    You go girls!!

  • Naaivarkie - 2011-09-16 16:57

    They always have Mrs Palmer and her five daughters I suppose!

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