Ask Bra Mo: Girlfriend's baby isn't mine

By Drum Digital
04 May 2015

I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. She cheated on me and now she's pregnant.

I really love her a lot but I'm confused. Can I be a dad to someone else's child?

Bra Mo answers:

It's very difficult to pick up the pieces after someone has broken the trust. I suggest you tell your girlfriend that you need to know if you are the father and go for a paternity test. You have to inform your girlfriend of the hurt and humiliation she caused you. When people cheat on each other, they are usually destined to break up. This is because sustaining a long-term relationship is challenging and requires people who are emotionally mature. Don't make any rash decision yet.

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