Ask bra Mo: Tired of boring sex

By Drum Digital
01 June 2015

The problem is that sex with him is boring.

I'm 23 and I've been in a long-term relationship with my boyfriend who is 36. We love each other deeply. I've asked him many times to touch me and change positions. I don't know if I'm pushing him too hard or not. What can I do?

Bra Mo answers:

Men are sensitive, and the last thing we want to hear from our partner is that we're not good in bed. But we need to realise that we can't think of ourselves as studs and Casanovas. I wonder if he's always been like this or if it's just recently. Ideally, find out if he's stressed, which will affect his libido. Broach the subject of intimacy in a way that doesn't feel like you're complaining or attacking your boyfriend. also choose the right time to do it. Bringing up the conversation when you're doing the deed is a mood-killer.

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