Ask sis Dolly: Baby mama drama

By Drum Digital
28 April 2015

But the child's mother doesn't want me near the child.

I've been dating a guy for eight years and we have a child. We're getting married but he also has another child that I accept. What can I do because the child will always be in our lives?

Sis Dolly answers:

You need to keep doing what you're doing. Your future husband needs to deal with this firmly and clearly. He needs to let the child's mother know that he would like the child to be a part of his family. It sounds as if she's still hurt and angry about their break-up and is using you as an excuse and the child as some kind of weapon to hurt you. Your future husband needs to remind his ex that you're going to be in his life forever so she can't keep up this behaviour.

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