Ask sis Dolly: He hates condoms

By Drum Digital
23 July 2015

When we make love he doesn't want to use protection.

I'm 24 and in love with a much older guy. When we make love he doesn't want to use protection, and when I ask him about it he gets angry. What can I do?

Sis Dolly answers:

You can stop having sex with him unless he uses protection. It really is that simple. having said that, know that you risk losing him if you take that stance. The choice here is your life and body. it's about about having control over your body and who you share it with, especially when it could result in an unplanned child or contracting an STI. By allowing him to behave in this way, you're giving him permission to do what he wants with your life. If he loves you, he'll consider your request to use protection. I f he chooses to walk, it will be because he doesn't  value you enough. You don't want to be with a person who doesn't honour your wishes or value you.

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