Ask Sis Dolly: He wants two wives

By Drum Digital
26 April 2016

He wants two wives

I’ve been dating a married guy for three years now and he’s very serious about me.

I was married before and have been separated from my husband for five years but we haven’t divorced.

This new man now wants to take me as his second wife. Please help, I’m confused.

Sis Dolly Answers

The situation is simple.

What do you want? Do you want to have an affair with a married man, do you want to be a second wife or do you want to leave and find a relationship where you are not sharing this man?  The confusion is simply because you want to have the affair, but you don’t want to officially share this man and would rather “steal” his time.

By becoming a second wife, you face the possibility of having to deal with a third wife and you might feel you won’t be able to up and leave.

Be honest with yourself about what you want and then make your choice.

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