Ask Sis Dolly: He's a cheater

By Drum Digital
12 February 2016

I’ve been dating this guy for five years. He is the first and only guy I’ve had sex with.

He once cheated on me with his uncle’s daughter and I only found out when she aborted his baby.

I forgave him but now he’s started again, this time with his friend’s sister.

Everyone in his life knows I’m his fiancée but he’s now dating this girl.

When I asked him why, he said it’s because I’m not talkative enough.

I love him, give him everything he wants, I respect him, I give him sex the way he wants it and I sleep at his place to cook and wash his clothes.

I spend every weekend with him. I love this guy and don’t want to lose him.

What can I do?

Sis Dolly answers: 

Why are you prepared to be treated as second best in your relationship?

If this man wants someone more talkative, then why is he still with you? Why doesn’t he just go and find someone who’s more suitable and break it off?

He’s still with you because you are compliant.

He can do anything he wants and you still feel you have to please him. Thanks to you, he always has clean clothing so he can look good when he goes out with other women.

What he’s saying is that you’re only good enough for his convenience. If you’re prepared to always live in the shadow of the woman he seems to prefer, then stay with him and forever be a doormat.

Otherwise, find yourself a man who appreciates you for who you are, gives you as much as you give him and respects you as much as you respect him.

Find Love!