Ask Sis Dolly: His not keen to pay lobolo

By Drum Digital
20 May 2016

His not keen to pay lobolo

I’ve been living with my boyfriend for eight years.

In December, I found out that he has built a house without me knowing, but he doesn’t want to pay lobolo for me.

Sis Dolly Answers

It sounds to me as if you’re deeply unhappy with your boyfriend.

And it seems he’s not doing the things you need him to do in order for you to feel honoured, considered and worthy within this relationship.

You need to establish his intent and where you fit into his life in the future. If you don’t get the answers you need, you’re going to become a long-suffering and miserable person.

Make the choices that will bring you happiness.

Find Love!