Ask Sis Dolly: I don't know if I'm Gay

By Drum Digital
19 January 2017

I can't decide between the guy I'm engaged to and the woman I recently met

I’m 28 and engaged to the father of my two boys. Before I met him, I dated girls.

I recently met a girl (a lesbian) and can’t get her out of my mind.

I love my fiancé but I love her, too, and this is driving me insane.

Am I normal? What do I do?

Sis Dolly answers 

You’re a normal human being who’s caught between loving two people.

What isn’t clear is why you changed from your lesbian sexual orientation and got involved with the father of your kids.

It could be that you are bisexual (attracted to both sexes)? You need to make a decision as to who you are and what kind of life fulfils you and makes you happy.

Once that is determined, you’ll make the right choice for you and your children.

Call LifeLine on 0861-322-322 for counselling or Out (an organisation that serves the bisexual, lesbian and gay communities) on 012-430-3272.

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