Ask sis Dolly: I'm a bad girlfriend

By Drum Digital
01 April 2015

I make money the main priority of our relationship.

I'm 32 and need help. I'm in love with a handsome 49-year-old man but When he tells me he doesn't have money to give me, I threaten to deprive him or call him names. I'm tired of my bad behavior.

Sis Dolly answers:

If you're really tired of your behavior, stop it. It's that simple. First, look at your relationship. If you're in love with this man, money shouldn't matter as much to you. If I were him, I'd wonder if you're just in it for the money. Is it a fair relationship or is he paying for your sex and love? This can change the relationship dynamic. He might genuinely love you but how long before he gets fed up or before he realises he can pay for sex without the abuse? So, stop the bullying and name-calling- it's mean and ugly. Regardless of who is doing it and the reason why, it is unacceptable to treat another person like that.

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