Ask Sis Dolly: I'm being controlled

By Drum Digital
06 September 2016

I started dating an older guy recently and now I have no freedom, he picks me up from work and goes with me everywhere

I started dating an older guy recently and now I have no freedom. He picks me up from work and goes with me everywhere.

My colleagues and friends know him and he proposed a week ago. I fear it will be the end of my involvement in the outside world.

He’s controlling and wants the final word on everything.

Please help.

Sis Dolly answers

If the relationship is like this, there no chance he will change when you are married. You need to decide if you want to spend the rest of your life with this man.

If yes, then I suggest you try talking to him about how his actions make you feel, and try to reach common ground that will make both of you happy.

Book a pre-marital counselling session at Famsa.

Call them on 011-975-7106/7.

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