Ask sis Dolly: I'm scared I'll lose him

By Drum Digital
22 June 2015

He decided we should break up.

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and I'm pregnant. I'm scared I'll lose him and become a single parent.

Sis Dolly answers:

I don't know if you can keep him if he's made a decision, but start by finding out why he wants to break up. If his reasons are around things you can both work on to fix, then there's a chance you could still stay together. If he claims you're the problem, don't try to change yourself to suit him. When we try to change who we are to please others, we compromise our integrity. He may also be battling with the idea of being a parent and the responsibility. Discuss your individual responsibilities with him. if he still chooses to move on, please ensure he takes financial responsibility for his child.

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