Ask Sis Dolly: I'm sexually frustrated

By Drum Digital
29 April 2016

Ask Sis Dolly: I'm sexually frustrated

I’ve been married to my husband for seven years.

I cheated on him, but I’ve been faithful for the past two years now.  However, I don’t enjoy sex with him as much as I enjoyed it with my ex-lover.

I try every time to connect sexually with him but it just doesn’t work and that frustrates me.

I have no desire to turn to others but I’m just frustrated sexually.

Sis Dolly Answers

What is different with your husband? Ask yourself very specifically what your needs are and how your ex satisfied them, then see if you and your husband can do the same.

Have a very frank discussion that will give both of you the chance to be satisfied in this relationship.  Be open and honest about your needs Sometimes you have to be very specific.

Be prepared to do this in a way that respects and honours your relationship and builds on your intimacy, as opposed to leaving you both feeling insecure.

Find Love!