Ask Sis Dolly: Is he into me?

By Drum Digital
30 September 2016

Sometimes we do things that couples do, until I hear that he’s with someone else, I love him but I also don’t want to be his rebound

I’m 20 and started varsity last year. I met a boy I’ve fallen deeply in love with but he doesn’t seem to feel the same way.

Sometimes we do things that couples do, until I hear that he’s with someone else. This has been going on for a while.

I love him but I also don’t want to be his rebound.

What can I do?

Sis Dolly answers 

You have all the evidence you need that this boy’s not serious about you. Why do you take him back when he comes to you after his fun? He’s making you a back-up plan and you’re letting him play with your emotions.

You need to put your foot down and refuse to allow him to come and go as he pleases.

I suggest you have a serious talk with him. Be specific about what you don’t like and don’t beat about the bush.

He either leaves you or acknowledges he’s in a relationship with you.

Find Love!