Ask Sis Dolly: My ex still loves me

By Drum Digital
11 October 2016

My previous boyfriend has called to tell me he still loves me, I’m confused, because since he called, I can’t stop thinking about him

I’m 25 and recently broke up with the father of my child. Now, my previous boyfriend has called to tell me he still loves me. I’m confused, because since he called, I can’t stop thinking about him.

We dated for almost five years and were fine until he cheated on me multiple times. We fought a lot and it even became physical. I then left him for the father of my child.

He also has a baby mama now, so things are even more complicated. I’m in my second year at varsity and really enjoying my single life, though it’s hard and lonely at times.

Do you think my loneliness is confusing me or do you think he’s playing some sick game because I left? Or is he really sorry for what happened in the past and realising what he’s lost?

Sis Dolly answers

It’s always a good idea to take a small break from relationships after a break-up. This ensures you heal and don’t take baggage from your last relationship to the next one.

If you’re thinking about going back to your ex, make a list of pros and cons to help you decide if it’s worth going back. Remember what you had to endure and bear in mind there are children involved.

Loneliness is not a reason to get into a relationship with whoever comes your way.

Remember, this is about you and what you want.

Find Love!