Ask sis Dolly: My wife doesn't want me any more

By Drum Digital
25 August 2015

She says she no longer wants me but we haven't even had a fight.

I'm 34 and my wife of five years is 27. Is there anything I can do to save this marriage?

Without knowing why she wants to leave you, I can't give you any ideas about how to save the marriage. Is it possible she's met someone else and hasn't told you? Alternatively, she could feel like she's outgrown your marriage. There must be some reason why she wants to leave your life together. I advise that you speak to her about your concerns. That is where you need to start. My guess, from the little information you've provided, is that you're not much of a talker and maybe a little introverted, and she might need more than that from you. But as I said, you will really have to ask her and then see if there are any changes that you can make and commit to that would be suitable for her needs and to salvage your marriage. If you would like to set up a counselling session to find the cause of the problem, contact Famsa o 011 975 7106/7.

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