Ask Sis Dolly: She won't leave me

By Drum Digital
01 August 2016

I impregnated another girl, who claims to love me and won’t leave me whether I like it or not

I’m a 25-year-old guy and have been in love with an 18-year-old girl for five years now. We were getting serious and promised each other we would get married after she finishes school.

But I then impregnated another girl, who claims to love me and won’t leave me whether I like it or not. My girlfriend then insisted we end our relationship, but we still love each other.

Sis Dolly answers

Does this mean you started a relationship with this girl when she was 13 and you were 20?

According to the Children’s Act 38 of 2005, if you engage in sexual activity with someone younger than 16, it’s considered statutory rape, which is a serious crime.

Then you cheated on her and got the other girl pregnant, which means you didn’t use protection.

You need to decide what you want. Consider what you’ve done to the two girls. Neither deserved how you treated them.

Sadly, whatever you decide, someone is going to get hurt.

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