Ask sis Dolly: Waiting for him to commit

By Drum Digital
13 August 2015

He's made no commitment to me all these years.

I'm 34 and in a four -year relationship with a 45 year old man. I don't have a child but he has a 22 year old son. What must I do?

Sis Dolly answers:

Four years is actually not that long. But having sad that, what kind of commitment have you made to each other and how do you see your future together? What kind of commitment would you like to have? And have you asked him if he can give you this sort of commitment? You need to ask for what you need, and then be prepared to see if he can give you this. Both of you need to give each other the space to say, and ask for, what you would like from the relationship. You both need to carefully consider what you're prepared to give to the other person. From there, decide if what you're prepared to give and receive is enough to keep you in the relationship. If you don't talk about it, then you'll always be expecting things he possibly can't give you.

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