In love with an ex

By Drum Digital
19 March 2014

Sadly, you can’t force him to love you again.

And the problems that caused your break-up are still there. I suggest you look at why things came to an end and see if you can overcome these obstacles. It’s not impossible he will feel for you again, but if he’s happy being friendsand he hasn’t made a romantic move, I think the message is clear: he’s not interested in a love relationship with you even though he cares for you as a friend. This is probably painful to acceptand you’ll have to decide whether it would be better to have him in your life, even if it’s just as a friend, or to make a clean break and move on. Ask yourself how you’re going to feel when he meets another girl and starts chasing her. You’ll feel betrayedbut you won’t be able to say a word because you’re “just friends”.

My advice would be to face up to the reality that you’re not good together – unless he gives you a sign that you’re still his girl.

Find Love!