Man tells wife he was joking when he proposed 20 years ago

By Drum Digital
09 June 2014

Former pastor tells wife he was joking when he proposed 20 years ago.

US talk show host Iyanla Vanzant, has visited a Pennsylvania husband whose double life is threatening his marriage of 20 years.

A Huffington Post article reveals that David, a husband, father and former pastor has been married to his high school sweetheart, Jennifer, for 20 years.

Together, they have two sons and, as it would appear on the outside, an ordinary relationship.

In “Fix My Life” fashion, David has also secretly been living a double life that includes a pornography addiction and meeting potential sex partners in chat rooms on-line.

Iyanla, is the  former relationship expert for The Oprah Show, she also host of the new OWN series, Iyanla, "Fix My Life".

When Iyanla arrives, she learns more about the situation.

David has moved into his own apartment, but can't seem to fully let go, still coming home for weekly dinners.

Jennifer still wears her wedding ring -- and wears David's, which he took off two years ago. Both David and Jennifer had difficult childhoods, but found comfort in each other. So, when David playfully asked Jennifer to marry him, she said yes.

David says that the day the two got engaged was the day his marriage ended, because it was something he never seriously wanted. Source:

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