She’s not the one

By Drum Digital
10 November 2015

I paid lobola for someone, but now I regret it because I still love the woman I was with before I met her. The other woman and I never broke up, and I can’t get over her.


Sis Dolly answers:

I don’t understand how this has happened. Why did you pay lobola for someone when you’re still dating another person? And not only dating another person – this is the person you were dating before you met the woman you paid lobola for. I’m not sure what you’re asking me or what you expect me to say. Do you want to speak to the elders and ask for your lobola back?

Ask yourself these questions to decide what you really want. Then have the courage to go and ask for or get it.

Find Love!