12 Things men do that make women fall deeper in love

By admin
19 May 2016

Men - we love them ...

... really, really love them. We can’t live without them and we certainly don’t want to. We enjoy all of the little things they do that make them so much hotter.

Here are 12 things men do that women really adore:

1. Planning is amazing

When a man plans, it’s almost as exciting as him proposing.

Whether he organises a date, a weekend trip, an afternoon walk - really, anything - we’re happy. It shows us that you’re capable of putting effort into us and you like it. Actually, you really, really like it.

2. Being a great listener

Showing a woman that you’re a great listener is oh, so alluring, especially when you remember things that we like. Whether it’s flowers, a book, chocolates or jewellery, if you surprise us with it, we feel treasured and special!

3. Show us some vulnerability

It’s extraordinary when a man talks openly and honestly about his feelings with you. When he’s comfortable doing so, it’s great. It’s so great it’s like winning the emotional lottery!

4. Please us in the bedroom

When a man can make it happen for you, how elated are you? It’s so exciting it’s almost like winning a tournament! A man who wants to pleasure you, so you truly enjoy yourself, well, now that’s how I define a good man.

He gets extra applause if he does something he doesn’t ordinarily like doing.

5. Cook for us

When a man knows his way around the kitchen and is capable and confident, it’s utterly cute. I’m a sucker for the look on his face when he means business with those vegetables. Cooking takes patience and shows us that you’re cherish-worthy.

6. Let’s go shopping

Let’s face it, sports are a popular hobby for most men. Well, shopping is a favourite pastime of many women. Shopping is to women what sport is to men. Shopping may not be good for women’s wallets (or their man’s!), and it certainly isn’t cardio, but it absolutely is fun.

When a man can shop with you and give his opinion, he’s golden.

7. It’s okay to be nerdy

Am I the only woman who not-so-secretly thinks it’s really endearing when a man is settled on a couch with his book?

When he gets all geeked out and excited about something he’s reading and he’s not ashamed of it, it’s pretty adorable!

8. Compromise is key

How many times has your man done something he doesn’t want to because you asked him to?

When a man does something for us that he wouldn’t ordinarily want to do, it makes our hearts melt. Being sweet and thoughtful always goes a long way. We so appreciate you doing something you’re not eager to do.

9. Get all sporty

It’s nice to see men fired up and passionate about sports. In fact, it’s oddly exciting. When you’re roaring at the TV and getting all riled up - it’s almost erotic.

And when your eyes light up, you become quite desirable

10. Kiss and caress us

Being affectionate and sweet to us goes a long way. When you’re sweet to us - whether you unexpectedly put your arm around us, hold our hand just because, or give us an excited kiss for no reason - our heart skips a beat.

11. Love our family

Some people (me included!) have an unusual family. But, your family is your family and so you love them a lot. When your man gets in close with your family and makes all the family members love him, he’s extra fabulous.

12. It’s okay to be dominating

Dominating us makes us sizzle in all the right places. Almost every woman wants a little Fifty Shades of Grey in her life.

There’s a time and a place to make love, and there’s a time and a place to be more aggressive. When you know the difference, you make us swoon.

Written by Carly Spindel