Caught my boyfriend red-handed

By admin
07 December 2013

“I have been in a relationship for almost two years. Although I have not caught my boyfriend red-handed with a girl, there were phone calls that made me suspicious and he became very angry whenever I touched his phone. Last year at Christmas time he went to Durban without telling me. He called me only when he came back in January and said he was sorry for what he had done. Now that he is not working he wants to be the most honest person ever. He claims to have changed but I suspect that he is using me for food, transport and accommodation until he gets a job and will then go back to his old ways.” – Martha, e-mail

Dear Martha

This is typical of many men. When they are down and out, they are the best men you have come across. When his life was at its peak he didn’t care for you and it is obvious he cared for other women. Where are those women today? Men like that never change. Why do you allow yourself to be used by a man who never loved you, respected you and cared for you? Move on, sisi, and don’t waste your time or money on him. Good luck.