HELP: "As soon as he penetrates me, he comes"

By Faeza
14 July 2016

Anonymous from Thokoza writes:

Every time I have sex with my husband, I feel pain. He also comes as soon as he penetrates me.

Dr Eve answers anonymous:

Pain may mean an infection or that you are tense when you make love to your husband

and your muscles are going into spasm. The early ejaculation problem could be caused by the fact that maybe your husband has not yet learned how to hold back his orgasm.

Encourage him to slow down when you have sex and to continue to stimulate your clitoral region, even if he has ejaculated.