HELP: "Baby daddy keeps leaving me"

By Faeza
08 September 2016

Anonymous from Kagiso writes:

The father of my baby left me while I was pregnant but came back before the baby was born. Now my problem is that he left me again and I’m stressed because I’m struggling to move on.

Sis Naledi responds:

He behaves as someone who knows what he wants but while he hasn’t got it yet, he feels safe to come back to you because you are available and vulnerable. To move on will start with realising that he does not respect you and is insensitive to your feelings. A selfish person will keep hurting you and coming back playing with your feelings like a yo-yo until you wake up one day with three children of his and hope that one day he will

marry you and stay with you