HELP: "Baby mama always interrupts us when we are bonking"

By Faeza
17 March 2017

Anonymous from Lydenburg

I’m a 37-year-old woman who is in love with a man aged 37. I don’t enjoy sex because

my boyfriend ejaculates very quickly. Could it be that we are constantly interrupted by phone calls from his baby mama every time we have sex?

Dr Eve responds:

Your boyfriend needs to learn how to put up boundaries. This will help him delay

ejaculation too. It sounds as if he is distracted and this makes him not to concentrate while making love to you. He needs to put boundaries when it comes to his baby mama, and learn to relax and be more attentive to you when making love.