HELP: "Bonking my hubby is a nightmare"

By Faeza
08 December 2016

Anonymous from Soweto writes:

I am 23-year-old woman who has been married to a 28-year-old man for three years.

I am no longer interested in having sex with him. What could be the cause of the problem?

Dr Eve responds:

In the beginning of any relationship, sex is so exciting. Its new, exploratory and you just want to have it all the time. Over time, it becomes familiar and you know what to expect which is also nice. The danger is that if you don’t bring in new ideas, the sex simply becomes boring. But it is usually relationship stuff that gets people to lose interest in being sexual. I suggest you look into the relationship issues that could be getting in your way."