HELP: "Bonking with my partner is a nightmare, because of bad smell"

By Faeza
19 July 2016

Anonymous from Rustenburg writes:

I’m a 21-year-old woman who is dating a man aged 21. I have a problem with my boyfriend. His manhood smells bad and when I tell him to use a condom when we have sex, he says I’m cheating on him. He also doesn’t want to circumcise. Every time I try to leave him, he threatens to kill me. How do I deal with this? Please help.

Dr Eve replies:

You need support to get out of what sounds like a manipulative and controlling

relationship. Reach out to family to support and protect you. Contact Childline or Famsa for support on 011 975 7106. You need to take this matter seriously and you need help to get out of this toxic situation.