HELP: "He wants to bonk everyday, I can't handle it"

By Faeza
16 March 2017

Anonymous from Polokwane writes:

I’m 28 and my fiance is 35. We’ve been together for eight years. The problem is that he likes sex a lot and I can’t handle it. He wants to have sex everyday. Is this normal?

Dr Eve responds:

I know you began this relationship when you were very young. When one is young, it is difficult to find your own voice and make decisions for yourself. It’s easy to be influenced – especially by men. Now that you are older, you have a voice and you know what to do and don’t like. Say no to sex you don’t want and yes to sex you do want. You have equal say on how often you should have it. Demanding too much sex will kill your desire and love.