HELP: "How can I keep it tight?"

By Faeza
01 November 2016

Anonymous from Umlazi writes: 

I don’t have a child but my

private part is big and wet.

How can I make it tight? I want to

satisfy my man. Please help.

Dr Eve answers:

The first issue is that you

are not informed about

sexuality and so you are

ignorant about how your body


Your private part takes

care of itself. It opens up when

you are aroused and gets wet

so you will not have a tight dry

private part.

This makes penetration fun and

enjoyable. Once you are no longer

aroused, your private part rests

back to its original size and shape.

You’re not supposed to have a

tight dry private part.

My second issue is that you want to please

your boyfriend by offering a tight

private part.

Sex is to please you. You must

ask for and receive what you

love. This includes participating

in pleasuring each other. Please

do not be ashame of your private

part. Protect it with condoms and

enjoy the pleasure it gives you.