Anonymous from Soweto writes:
My girlfriend was raped and
she has anger towards all
men. I need to help her but I don’t
know how. I love her and I don’t want
to lose her. It hurts to feel like you are
useless to someone you love.
Sis Naledi answers:
It may be very difficult to
handle this on your own as
you may both be traumatised
by the rape incident. You sound
badly affected also and need to be
guided on how to support your
partner. The best thing to do is for
both of you to get counselling from
your local clinic.