HELP: "I always masturbate"

By Faeza
06 June 2017

Anonymous from Durban writes:

I have a serious problem. Every time after I have made love to my girlfriend, I want to masturbate. I don’t like to masturbate, but if I don’t do that my manhood gets very

painful. What can I do?


Dr Eve responds:

If you cannot ejaculate when making love with your girlfriend, then of course you

will masturbate afterwards. Don’t see masturbation as something that is bad or sinful.

As long as you are respectful of your girlfriend and always only have another round with her consent, there is no problem in doing so.