HELP: "I always masturbate after bonking"

By Faeza
13 February 2017

Anonymous from Durban writes: 

I have a serious problem.

Every time after I have made love to

my girlfriend, I want to masturbate.

I don’t like to masturbate, but if I

don’t do that my manhood gets very

painful. What can I do?

Dr Eve answers: 

If you cannot ejaculate

when making love with your

girlfriend, then of course you

will masturbate afterwards.

Don’t see masturbation as

something that is bad or sinful.

As long as you are respectful of

your girlfriend and always only have

another round with her consent, there

is no problem in doing so.