HELP: "I am in love with my married pastor"

By Faeza
28 March 2017

Anonymous from Durban writes:

It’s been 10 years since I have known our pastor. My knees get weak when I see him. He also adores me. But he says he can’t cheat on his wife. What must we do?

Dr Eve responds:

It is normal to get attracted to people anywhere. However that does not suggest that you

should have relationships with every person you get attracted to. It is important in life to have selfcontrol. That will help you in deciding on what feelings you should act on and which to defy. For as long as you entertain the idea it remains a crush until you dismiss its possibility