HELP "I am scared he will go back to his baby mama"

By Faeza
29 June 2016

Anonymous from Durban writes:

My boyfriend has a child with another woman. I’m afraid he’ll will go back to her. I love

him, but I don’t trust him. Please help.

Sis Naledi answers anonymous

He has decided to leave that woman with a child and stay with you. What makes you

think he will go back? You need to be confident and concentrate on building your relationship with this guy. If you focus too much on negative things and your fears, you will end up driving him away. Encourage him to have a good relationship with his

child without getting too involved.