HELP: "I am still in love with my ex-husband"

By Faeza
31 March 2017

Anonymous from Durban writes:

I divorced my ex-husband four years ago after he cheated on me, but I still love him.

He recently told me that the divorce is just a piece of paper and everything will be fine between us, but nothing has happened. How do I approach him again?

Sis Naledi responds:

If your marriage was broken down to a point of divorce, reconciliation should be a

serious joint effort to make sure that you don’t land in a similar or worse situation than before. Marriage is not just about love, a lot of other things need to be in place such as focus, commitment, effective communication and partnership. I suggest you have a more serious and direct talk with him.