HELP: "I am too shy to ask my man to bonk me"

By Faeza
04 April 2017

Anonymous from Kroonstad writes:

"I’m a 31-year-old woman who has one child. At times, I feel like asking my man to make

love to me but I’m shy. Normally he is the one who initiates things. I just don’t know where to start. Please help me.

Dr Eve responds:

You can learn to play with him when relaxing. Start touching different areas of his body and talk about what you like and where you would like him to touch you. You can start

on a lighter note, like kissing and massaging him. With time, you will feel comfortable around him and be able to initiate it.