HELP: I can't satisfy my wife

By Faeza
23 September 2016

Anonymous from Durban writes:

I’m a 31-year-old man who

is married to a woman who

is also 31. We have a beautiful child

together. I have a problem of early

ejaculation and my wife has now lost

interest in sex.

I have tried my best to satisfy her,

but it’s not working. This is causing

her to cheat. Please help.

Dr Eve answers:

Early ejaculation is usually as a result of a man feeling

anxious about their sexual performance.

You get scared before sex and automatically ejaculate

quickly because of your fear.

Try to get your wife back into bed and ask her to work with you to gain

control of your ejaculation.

Stay calm and focused during sex, even if you ejaculate too quickly, keep playing with her.

Over time, you will settle down and your wife will not cheat if you talk about this.