HELP: "I enjoy bonking my makwapheni and not my husband"

By Faeza
09 September 2016

Anonymous from Lephalale writes:

My husband doesn’t satisfy me in bed and won’t listen when I tell him what I need. As a result, I’ve found myself a boyfriend. I enjoy having sex with my boyfriend, but I know that

cheating is wrong. What should I do?

Dr Eve responds:

It’s frustrating when a partner does not listen to your sexual requests. You feel disrespected and ignored. However, cheating is wrong and is not the solution to your

problem. Rather talk to your husband about how you feel and try to find a solution together. Alternatively, you and your husband should consider seeking professional help. Make sure you use condoms everytime you have sex.