HELP: "I have been dating a married man and can't leave him"

By Faeza
31 May 2017

Anonymous from Tembisa writes:

I have been in a relationship with a married man for three years. We’re in love. Whenever I start dating a single guy, I find him boring and end the relationship to be with my married man. Help!

Sis Naledi responds:

People have different values. You can’t commit to a relationship with any other

man if you have alternatives that you prefer. It sounds like you are comfortable with this married man for reasons you don’t mention. Focus on what you want in life, invest in a potential relationship and commit to it. The married man has a family and may never be

yours. You are wasting your time.