HELP: "I love bonking more than my husband"

By Faeza
29 August 2016

Anonymous from Ekangala writes: 

I’m a 38-year-old married woman who enjoys sex very much. But my husband is not that

much into sex. What can I do?

Dr Eve responds:

In every sexual relationship, one person has more desire than the other. The challenge is always how a couple manages to work it out. It must be frustrating for you, the higher desire partner. My concern is always the tension this leads to in a relationship as resentment develops. This tension may cause your husband to lose interest. I recommend that you accept this desire difference. Get a sex toy, masturbate on your own and make the relationship peaceful.