HELP: “I nearly cheated because we no longer have sex”

By Faeza
13 January 2017

Anonymous from Matatiele writes:

I’m 31 and I have been with

my partner for eight years. We

got married two years ago and have a

nine-month-old baby girl.

My concern is that we’ve only had

sex twice after the baby was born.

He is there for me and my baby, so

I can’t say he’s having an affair, but I

nearly cheated on him recently.

Dr Eve answers: 

Cheating complicates life so

much, please try to avoid it.

Pregnancy and babies have

different unexpected impacts on both

men and women. The problem is that

your husband is withholding his body

and heart and not telling you why.

I recommend you both go for

therapy. Call Famsa on 011 975 7106

for great counselling service.