HELP: "I only attract stingy men"

By Faeza
16 May 2017

Anonymous from Polokwane writes:

I have a big problem. I only fall for stingy guys. I’m tired of always fighting with my

boyfriend to give me money to do my hair and buy cosmetics. This also happened with the four guys I previously dated. Am I doing something wrong or should I stop dating altogether?

Sis Naledi responds:

It appears that you are dating for the wrong reasons and hence you change men often. It is a problem to expect men to give you money for doing your hair and buying cosmetics.

Rather get a job and restore your dignity by buying what you want with your own money. Dating is about getting a partner who will love and respect you as you will do the same to him, not for financial support.