HELP: "I suffer from premature ejaculation"

By Faeza
04 May 2017

Anonymous from Mokopane writes:

I am a 41-year-old man and my problem is that I sometimes ejaculate prematurely

during sex. I am very worried.

Dr Eve responds:

Healthy men your age commonly take about three to five minutes to ejaculate. However, every man wants to last longer. But because feelings are so great during sex and men

believe they must make women orgasm, they often ejaculate prematurely. On the other hand, women take about 20 to 30 minutes to reach an orgasm. So I want you to relax and try to get rid of any anxiety you might be feeling as this will make you ejaculate quicker. Slow down your love-making and spend time bringing your woman to orgasm with clitoral stimulation. And if you ejaculate prematurely, don’t feel embarrassed and run away. Keep playing and talking to your woman.