HELP: "I'm in love with two men"

By Faeza
10 October 2016

Asanda from Eastern Cape writes: 

I’m in love with two men.

Three months ago, my

boyfriend and I were in the process

of breaking up when a friend

introduced me to another guy.

Eventually, my boyfriend and I

patched things up. My problem is

that the guy I met through my friend

still calls me and I have feelings for

him. What can I do? I love them both.

Sis Naledi answers: 

Asanda, in life we make

choices and we live with

the consequences of those

choices. It’s up to an individual to

decide to be driven by emotions and

desires instead of values. The body

doesn’t think. It feels. It is the duty of

an individual to decide what is best.